Idk what county I was in btw but I got a possession and pare in jersey for weed misdomeaner I was realsed no bail given a court date can I just not go back to jersey ever and not have any consequences that's what I've been told but idk really. I have a car and do drive.
I would not recommend that. You will face consequences. When you do not show up in Court a warrant will be issued for your arrest. The Judge will also likely hold you in contempt of Court.
The next time you are pulled over, apply for a job or have contact with law enforcement, the warrant will pop up and you will be arrested, brought back to Court and likely face more severe consequences.
The best thing to do is consult with an attorney and get this taken care of now. Put it behind you rather than make it worse than it is.